Monday, September 29, 2008

Road Trip!


Right in the middle of a regular work week for me.........I get to go on a road trip! Top down (on the car) up the 101 to Santa Barbara - where my Road Trip Buddy (RTB) has invited me along to take advantage of the beautiful surroundings while she works a trade show. A mini-vacation! Yea!

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Intervention Time


This is Bob. Bob is a small, blue parakeet given to me over 3 years ago when Bob was already 3 or 4 years old. Bob came with a friend, a green parakeet - Not-Bob. Not-Bob died about 18 months ago of undetermined causes. About 6 months ago I came home from work and found eggs in Bob's cage. White eggs, about the size of large M&M with p-nuts. Rather large for a parakeet Bob's size, and well, I thought Bob was a boy - but, he was the only bird in that cage so -............ For several months Bob would just 'lay' the eggs from the top branch of the cage - and they would tumble down, and I would clean them up. Then, I decided it would be cool for Bob to have a more comfy place to nest, so I put a wooden bowl with shredded paper in the cage. The first month Bob ignored it. This month - Bob won't leave it. Bob has laid 7 eggs this month and has been sitting on them for weeks- it looks like he may be eating a little- but, not nearly as much as before. So, today I am staging an intervention. I will go in (I put my hand in the cage the other day and Bob attacked me - never the friendliest parakeet- this was pretty aggressive. Altho, after Not-Bob died we attempted to hook Bob up with new friends - but Bob terrorized them and they ended up shivering with fear and hunger on the bottom of the cage- until I took them back to the store - rather chagrined at the antics of my killer parakeet.) Today I will clean the cage and empty the bowl and try and get Bob out of it and eating and drinking again. I am considering trying to find Bob a boyfriend bird- so maybe Bob can finally have those baby parakeets s/he has been working for - a green one maybe. I'll call him Sue.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

My children are my heroes


If we are lucky, we have heroes. Some one we can look up to, aspire to become, emulate. If we are really lucky- these heroes are someone we know that we may interact with on a regular basis. And, if we are truly blessed, as I am, we are related to our heroes and get to touch and see and love them on a daily basis. When we think of heroes we often visualize those generations who have gone on before us- blazed a path, lead the way. My heroes are a generation behind me - but that is the only instance where I outpace them. My heroes are my children. My daughter. My son. Just seeing that in print inspires me. They are mine, my heart, the first and truest loves of my life. I depend on them, I tease them, I laugh with them and at them. I marvel at their strength and beauty. They are first and foremost in my life and I could fill blogs for weeks with stories of their talents, kindnesses and accomplishments. My grand children are my loves, a wonder in my life, joy personified. I revel in the sameness I find reflected in my own children - and in the difference as my grandchildren grow and find their own way, their own personalities. I love being a Granma. But, I treasured the road to Granmaland - Motherhood. My children are grown now and they don't need me the way they used to - and so now I take a few steps back, relax, enjoy and marvel at........my heroes.

Not one thing


Not one thing. Nada. Zip. Nuthin'. That's what I have on my 'calendar' this weekend. I'm not going anywhere. Not seeing anyone, not working. No projects that need completing- or starting. House is clean, garden well watered and swept and brushed (mmmmmm, now that I think of it I could do a load of laundry). But, for the first time in months - I have a clear weekend. I think about my daughter and son at times like these. They are still in the child rearing years - with very busy lives of their own: work, school, seminary, church - before my daughter moved to Colorado there was also Girl Scouts and music lessons - each grand daughter took a different instrument- flute/guitar- at a different location - and dance - Hula/Tahitian and Celtic. Constant motion! But, for me, I have a clear schedule this week. And that means.....I can do nothing at all - or as much as I want. I'll keep you posted. Or not, it's not on my schedule, ya know.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Birthday Season


We are winding down to the last few days of 'The Birthday Season" in my family. My 'immediate' family consist of 9 people. I am the Matriarch - the sole survivor of my generation - and both my folks are gone. Next generation: My daughter (she of the Colorado move) is the eldest - and my son (he of the title above) is 6 years younger. Both are married. Colorado Girl has been married 18 years to the love of her life, Broncos Boy. Title Boy has been married to the love of HIS life, Angel Voice for 6 years now. Colorado Girl (CG) and Bronco Boy (BB) have 2 girls. MTPNW (13) and SCNN (11). (Why MTPNW has an extra consonant in her name would take an infinite amount of blogs to explain, and would only serve to annoy SCNN in the telling). Title Boy (TB) and Angel Voice (AV) have 2 sons, NTM (3) and CJM (9 and a half months). MTPNW's birthday is out there all by herself - in Feb. NTM starts the birthday season off in June, followed by his Auntie CG in July. In August we have 2- TB and SCNN - as we do again in September - when I go first - followed by AV. All quiet then, on the birthday front until December - when CJM will turn 1 and BB will hit the big 40- on Christmas Day no less. Big birthdays this year in December! (Well, aside from the REALLY BIG ONE).

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Happy Birthday!


Put another candle on my birthday cake,
and when you do,
a wish I'll make,
Put another candle on my birthday cake....
I'm another year old today!
Happy Birthday to me!

I'm another year old today!

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Happy Anniversary!


Yesterday was my Sweet Baby Girl and her Retired Coast Guard Hubby's 18th Wedding anniversary.

Happy first 18 years of forever!